There are three ways to answer this question:
1. The boring way
- “I’ll tell you later.”
- “There’s a reason that only my best friends know it.”
- “When you get to be my friend you’ll know.”
Most men and women answer with one of these three. Boooring!
2. Leave it blank
This is much better than a “just like everybody else’s” answer. After all, your match probably won’t go shortlisting you if you skipped this question.
3. Answer it as if it is a different question
- What is the most adorable thing about you??
- Describe yourself as a kid or as a teenager
- Share a funny or amusing story of yourself
- Describe an award or recognition you won.
- If you joined a talent contest, what will you perform?
- Describe a monicker that people call you, or used to call you.
- Describe a hidden aspiration (or one of your three wishes)
- Describe something that sets you apart from everyone else
- What do you like to do in private, or when no one else is looking?
- (A second answer to) What is the ONE thing that people DON’T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?
How do you answer this question?
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