Datingirl admonishes guys who write profiles in eHarmony:
Lessons from eHarmony for guys: #1- Stand Out
Three hundred and ninety six closed matches, thirteen closed communications, and three active matches under above my belt, I feel I’ve pretty much got the gist of the eHarmony experience–at least from a girl’s perspective. And guys, if I may–there are a few things you should know.
First, women probably close too many matches much too soon, simply because of your profile or pictures. Second, I’m here to tell you that it doesn’t have to be this way. Really. So. In the next few posts I will be sharing with you my thoughts about what works and doesn’t work in your eHarmony profiles. I mean, there’s really no reason to have such terrible profiles. You MUST be better than that. Think about it: we all want you to be the most prefect YOU so that we can all get off this online dating thing and get busy dating YOU. Got it? Good. Here we go. Read the rest of her post.

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