From artofapproaching.com: eHarmony Review: A Man’s Perspective

What shall I say to this? This reviewer believes that eHarmony is not for “charming dudes” at all!

And if you get ALL the way through that, THEN you can start “open communication.”

I guess this is eHarmony’s way of easing you into talking with each other, and allowing you to screen the other person more effectively. However, when it comes to online dating, the only things I really care about is:

1. How the girl looks in her pictures
2. How they interact with me on the phone.

Because let’s face it, until you actually TALK to the girl, you have no idea if you two are gonna click or not — no matter how many emails you exchange.

When I date online, I want to send the girl some fantastic emails FAST to demonstrate my personality, and get her on the phone quickly to lock her in and set up a date. eHarmony makes that IMPOSSIBLE. I actually had maybe 2-3 good looking girls in My Matches page, but I lost them all because of their clunky forced communication process, whereas had I been able to email them straight away, I might have had a chance.

Read the rest of his post

He’s in the wrong website.