Today’s eHarmony Advice article reads:
Imagine this:
You’re in a room with 20 people from all over the country. They’ve been brought there especially because they are highly compatible with you. They have the same feelings about important issues. They share your values. At the end of the day, you’re going to pick one person as a date.
So you start considering each person. It’s work, because you aren’t just talking…you’re judging, probing, screening. Every single person in that room is suited to your personality, but you start to notice as you work through them all:
- One person loves Opera. You hate Opera.
- One person is a passionate sailor. You get seasick.
- One person has bright orange hair. You normally don’t care for that, but they are very funny.
- One person is a passionate environmentalist. You aren’t.
Pretty soon you may start to think…”I thought these people were supposed to be compatible with me!” Read the rest of the article
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