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eHarmony: Homosexuality and Business

(Republished in entirety with permission from The Thinking Grounds, dated 29 September 2009. Thanks, Christian!)

So the whole eHarmony-bigotry showed up a little while ago, but since I was thinking about it today, I decided to write a post about it.

If you aren’t aware of what I’m talking about, I’ll fill you in briefly: a number of people are upset that eHarmony does not match same-sex couples. There is also something out there about a misleading commercial, but I don’t know much about that.

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  • annoymous1 wrote

    Wowl in spite of the article from Focus on the family people still think eHarmony is a Christian dating service. Of course by now Compatible Partners is in operation. If they don't die on the vine. This article was written last September a lot has happen since then. I agree in principle they can …

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Dear New Jersey Attorney General, Is eHarmony honoring the gay settlement?

Today is exactly six months after the launch of Compatible Partners, the website opened by eHarmony because of its settlement of a discrimination complaint with the New Jersey Attorney General. To get themselves out of the lawsuit, eHarmony made several long-term promises and commitments to the state government of New Jersey,

We have made the commitment to the New Jersey Attorney General’s Office that we will put our business effort behind the new site to make it successful.

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  • annoymous1 wrote

    BTW the logic in some of this is ridiculous. Singles who are straight are not more likely to try to get in the door to gay sites them whites during the civil rights area were going to try to get into black schools. In addition in spite of everything there are still individuals who homophobic and h …

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A better alternative to the rejection message

Our present matching system has limitations and your questionnaire results show that you are someone that our system will have a tough time finding a quality match. We’re very sorry about this, and, please, don’t let this mean that there’s not someone out there for you.

Click the button below and you’ll be able to search and browse profiles of single men in your area.

<SEARCH FOR SINGLES>

Compatible Partners really wants you to answer a survey

Sorry to bother you Mr. Thompson, but are you gay?

eHarmony sent a marketing research survey invitation to each of its Compatible Partners registrants on July 22, on July 24 and on July 27. Wow, they really want you to answer a survey, do they? Since it is so important, for the record and for discussion here are the survey questions, verbatim.

(What do you think of the survey? Do you think it will help them be any less clueless about gay relationships and dating as they are now? Post your feedback.)

Dear Brüno,

Can you take a few minutes to tell us what you think about Compatible Partners? User feedback is the #1 method we have of learning how to change and improve our service.

Please click here to participate.
Thank you for your help.
Sincerely,

Steve Carter, Ph.D.
Sr. Director of Research and Development
To unsubscribe from further emails, click here

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  • Robert lippman wrote

    now having looked this over the best thing i can say about your survey,is it has merits.However it i agree with what was said before.This is not center on a us gays,now that is vary bad you just are trying too make money off us eHarmony think better on how it does surveys for gay people and your co …

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How interesting … CompatiblePartners doesn’t reject registrants

Except when you choose “Married”, “Separated”, or be younger than 18, whatever your answers are — the site lets you in.

Married or separated

cp-currently-married

Underage

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  • Ron wrote

    This article makes sense. Why should you reject apples based on the profiles of successful oranges!? …

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From Rooftop Comedy: How to Build Confidence through eHarmony

Andy Sandford, dated 22 May 2009